Sunshine told me that our little boy (gone now & i hope his adventures are as good as mine still are, if a little more physical/exterior than mental/emotional since that's what he wants) didn't put Ocean's whisker there so i still don't know who did that (i did add another myself) * that's not the point * what struck me so sweet was that my little girl shrine was getting decoration, a form of worship even if it was unconscious, from other hands & at least two of them boy hands (yes, call me pathetic, but that matters) because i do know he put that feather there *